This is something I would like to state: I'm not someone with high expectations from relationships overall (this includes friendships). I would rather say that in this moment the only thing I want is to live things as they come, no rush or "engagement". At the same time I'm at a point in my life where I know my value and I could not handle having around me who don't see it. I need people who lift me up, not the ones that want to see me drowning. Coming to the first question, I think no one knows how simple it is to make my heart beat. I'll tell you something: most of the time (ok I won't lie to you: 100% of the time) I fall in love with the idea of someone. And so it happens that even if you have never even said hello to me, I find myself wondering how it is to talk with you, what you could say to make me laugh, if you know how to hug and so on. And when you first smile at me or talk to me I'll remember it. But this is about me.
About you, boys.
I always think that I need someone who knows what to want.
And who is not afraid of showing affection.
And who dances.
And likes to cook.
And who is brilliant in conversations.
And the list ends here.
Short isn't it?
But I know that all this is difficult to find nowadays. I believe that guys of our generation have the same problems of lack of confidence that were for long thought to be the primacy of women. Now the times have changed and I'm sure that to be a boy is sometimes even more difficult than to be a girl. Because in the end a girl can always cry or show her real feelings with no one being overly shocked. A guy can't. And this leads for me to major insecurities.
But this is another story.
